Hi. I’m Alex. This site is not your average self-help website.
Here you will find personal stories from my own journey and experiences in life and seduction and my Ultimate Guides that are some of the best pieces of personal development on the internet.
My content covers everything from in-depth and realistic views on social skills, meeting women, dating, and getting self-confident, to becoming a grounded masculine man and building self-worth, and even a sarcastic look on how to be hopelessly miserable to paradoxically improve your life.
I know you have many choices when it comes to which blog to read, which entrepreneur to follow, or which product to buy knowing you’ve made a decision that best suits you. I started this website as a way for me to help you specifically identify and resolve the internal conflicts that are holding you back from starting fulfilling relationships with other men and women, gain the grounding in yourself so you can maintain healthy and fulfilling friendly or romantic relationships as well as help you overcome your fears and anxieties. I also provide in-depth and specific advice concerning various aspects of life on my blog to aid you in living a good life.
However, my story began as a shy, insecure, egotistical 18 year old who wanted to date like every other 18 year old and lead a great life, except I didn’t know how and I didn’t know what to do to become attractive.
You know that feeling you get when you want to talk to someone, but you’re afraid of freezing up because you can’t think up anything interesting to talk about, them looking at you while you’re all frozen up, and then the conversation dies as you wonder what’s wrong with you and how much you hate awkwardness and yourself and why you suck at life?
Yep, that was me.
Until the breakup with my second girlfriend at 25.
In June of 2014 I had had enough of living like a loser who couldn’t get the girls he wanted. I knew I needed to improve myself one step at a time if I was ever going to get another girlfriend so I engaged myself with self-development with books ranging from dating to human psychology, online courses, and meetups.
I engaged myself with self-improvement passionately, figuring out what worked and what doesn’t, and loving the process of what I put myself through.
While being a generally positive person is awesome, if you’re into this kind of stuff, this blog is NOT for you:
1- Forced or absent minded positivity
2- Generic life tips
3- Endless self-affirmations
4- Faking it
5- Indirect pickup advice
6- Cheesy inspiration that has no application in real life
There’s already lots of that out there. Instead, if you believe these things; you’ll like what I enjoy sharing:
1: Life is about hanging out with people who can up-level you and bring out the best in you; high quality relationships.
2: Confidence is about being comfortable with various aspects of yourself and resolving that which holds you back.
3: Life is meant to be enjoyed where you wake up in the morning excited to own the day and shine from the inside out, not waking up in the morning questioning your existence and wondering why the hell you’re even existing.
4: Life is ultimately about being fulfilled as the person you are without needing a woman in your life, rather wanting her in your life. You are the real deal who respects and trusts himself while showing women the respect, love and real, awesome you that they want.
5: You must be willing to fail and screw things up to get what you want out of life.
6: To be successful in life, it’s essential to develop your mind, your beliefs, confidence and your craft. 90% is your own psychology and beliefs; 10% is knowing what to do and say.
7: Be an adder of immense value, fun and love to those you meet and never stop! Ain’t that kind of what life’s about?
8: Beliefs and a lack of a sense of happiness with life can be changed.
9: To get further, quicker, it’s essential to be mentored by those who know how to get you from where you are to where you want to be because they have the perspective and experience that you don’t yet have.
10: I believe in sharing my real self, whether it’s serious, chill, or silly, and telling stories while engaging you with me and being fun, because life’s about having fun, right? If you don’t like ridiculousness or reading crazy rants or you’re good at being a depressing twat who sucks energy from those you meet like a dry sponge that hasn’t been used since the Stone Age, you’re not gonna mix in well.
I invite you to take a wild journey of personal development and adventure with me to become the man you were born to be.